-Deenah-

Its quite special the way i met him..

Last year, I had the best holiday with Ranti n My cousin, Marcel. He came from swisszerland and planned to have holiday 4 about 1 month and we traveled together around Gili, Lombok n Bali. Just the last 2 days before i flew back to Jakarta..I met him at a party which most of the people there were gays. We met the same guy from Geneva, that also had spent the same time in Gili Island like us at the party. Then, he Have one gay friend..and he was soo happy to know us…i Dont know why..i Guess because of my cousin come from swiss as well ..(what a nuthead!!)

On the other hand, Alessandro was also at the party..he Told me that he met one gay friend…and ended up knowing another 25 gays at the party…(hahaha) n they all have crush on him I guess!! n from one of these 25 gays that he knew at the party..(can u imagine??) came up to him..n told him that theres another swiss group at the party…so he wanted to introduced him to us!!

U can imagine now how small our chances was to be together!!! but…

u know the story goes…i Met Him..we kinda have a little flirt between us!! but i was a bit afraid..that he might be gay as well..coz he’s soo damn cute to be straight!! LOL!!

we dance together…then i decided to go back to our hotel with Ranti n Marcel! Thank God he asked for my number!! the next day..we sms each other n agreed to meet again for dinner!! He’s a bit shy at first..n try to never look at me in the eye…but…u can already guess…i ended up flew back to Jakarta..n again flew back to Bali…n flew again to Jakarta…n Again back to Bali…over the weekend…just to be together with Him….well..I wont do that if he didnt asked me too….

He spent one night in Jakarta before leaving to swiss…n the next month..i came to swiss n visit him…we tried to live together first…..n get to know each other better….before deciding something serious!!

we had fight of course…But he loves me..n he said to his bestfriend..that he is sure that IM THe oNe (soo Sweet) …so…just when i didnt expect…He Proposed me..to marry him…with a ring that he made by himself..

I cried…of happiness of course…n we kissed through that night!! it was sooo sweet….I never felt happier..

We decided to Choose 18 of June for our wedding day…because i Was Born on the 18 of May..n He was BOrn on the 18 Of September…so….18 is our Lucky Number..n June..just bcoz its summer time in swiss and it was exactly on Saturday!!

its a bit complicated at first to arrange for all the documents…specially we lived in different country…n even different continent..but when there’s a will…there’s hope!!

For alMost 6 months now…we try to arrange everything for the wedding day…..im gonna wear Indonesian Kebaya..n He will wear suit with special chemise….from silk.. Indonesian style as well…

we got diamond for each of our wedding ring…as the wedding present from my grandpa..n he design the ring by him self..n we made it specially for us….

its Goin to be around 80 people who will come to Our wedding party…(for swiss wedding…its already quite big guys..coz the food is expensive here)…

my Mom will come from Jakarta, My sister will come from San Diego, and also his Father from France, His uncle From Italy and my Uncle From Holland….so..its quite international as well..I cant Wait!!!

it’s a bit stressfull..coz we decor everything by ourself, we cook by ourself…even the budget…we pay by ourself from our savings…….. we made a small disco n plan to have party all night long till the next morning……..so,..it is stressfull to prepare everything…

Still….we always have fun doing it together…..n i just cant wait to tell u guys how will it goes on the BIG DAY!!

Hope for ur Blessing…..WISH ME LUCK!!!

First i Met him..he’s a bit shy n quite cool!! (WAS!!)

after we lived together…OH MY GOD!! u can never imagine…this guy is soo damn crazy..n funny!!

I cant cooked before…n he is the one who always cooked for me…a bit the other way around for a relationship….n He really can cook very good!! Tuna Pasta n Apple Pie..hmm..(I found it very sexy…to see him cooking at any kitchen!)

He decor his own appartment with the best lightning that he arranged n made by himself..i can see that in the seconds i step into his place…soo futuristic….I thought…"CooL!!…this guy is very Creative…"

Since he was 18, he’s already very independent…support all his needs by his own salary without depending again to his parent..(I think its Great!!)

A good snowboarder….besides all other sports that he also does well!! (EXCEPT surfing) He hate it very much coz he’s still beginner n he had to use those big surfboards with a helmet…he thinks he dont look cool at all!! hahaha

We have the same type of music that we like…n he’s also party goers like me..;), he make good cocktails…n he could be a good bartender that u have at home….(cool!!)

Stupid n Goofy person i’ve ever know….always make stupid face, with stupid jokes…its just never boring with him …(specially when he fahrt n then he got soo red like tomato coz he’s embarassed!!)

BTW..He speak very good english, german, italianish and also parle francais, and now…He tried to speak some of indonesian words..like "apa?" "kenapa?" "berapa?" "mahal!" and thats all he can!!

I brought a lot of Close Up Toothpaste from Jakarta, coz He Love it very much…for him its the best toothpaste ever..n one time..just suddendly..he came to me and said…"harap tutup kembali" …I was like…."what??**%@@!!&%??

from where he knows these words??"

n then i found that he memorize it from CLose Up toothpaste package…..hahaha..soo funny!!

But The best thing is….
He is not an asshole at all.., he’s very loyal, someone that i can trust n have faith with, someone i can talk n discuss with….He’s the Most Honest Person Ever!!

Learn How 2 tell the trUth even when It hurts…From Him…n

TOLD HiM everything Bout’ my Past!! Nothin’ to hide..Nothin’ 2 Pretend..

n He KNOWs WHAT He WANT!! (one day..he Told me.."I Know What I want…I want U") soo sweet….

I know it sounds soo impossible and kinky to found a guy like him..but its true!! He loves me just the way I am, n He really cares for me, and hes a good lover too….;)

My Alessandro…He’s perfect for Me!!

I met Her at highschool…first time u met her….she’s a very shy person..but within times…u get to know her..she is the most incredible n loveable person..she is sweet..n very kind…the best personality ever!!

We hang out a lot!! went to lots lots of party together!! even the weird one guys!!
we used to have the same type of ex-boyfriends…as well!!
haha…from junkies…married man…(uups), mixed guys or we used to called Indo….not to forget..a very very rich ONE!!! well..the last one is a bit annoying..coz most of rich man out there are very very selfish n asshole…(sorry..but its true!!)

so Many Many Bad Times….we’ve been through together…being bOred (specially with Jakarta kind of living..which only cares for branded goods n looks)..goT stucK in Traffic Jam..Broke n No MonEy…n of course..BROKEN HEARTED!! thats The mosT suck things in the world u could ever had…But when we Have each other as Bestfriend…it’ll all be easier to get through it….

coz theres soo many assholes outhere..n we just never know ..the day all those guys will hurt us!! N when we have been through a LOT of broken hearted (specially her), we will always ended up asking.."whats wrong with me?"
so…FOR ALL THE GUYS OUTHERE…the real question is not whats wrong with us..but "whats wrong with u guys??"

The thing is…its very very nice to have someone who really cares for u..just the way u are..no pretending, no lies…just the real u…n have faith on u…believe in u…support u..always there for u..24 h/day… MATTER WHAT! N thats is the way our friendship like..

One day she told be…"Be grateful of what u have..coz not so many people as lucky as u are!"
I guess thats true…im soo lucky to have her as my bestfriend….

She is The Best FRienD u could Ever WisH For!!